- Being yelled at.
- Being ignored
- Finishing the last Wii game
I am also trying to heal my ears, so that when I hear whining and yelling, that I don't react. It is highly unlikely that the kids will need to visit the ER as a result of their horseplay.
Having this intention in my mind this evening helped bedtime proceed well from my perspective. I did not lose my cool and the kids got to bed only a few minutes after their scheduled bedtimes.
I think that the more I reflect on these insights, the deeper that they sink in and more healing occurs.
So far so good.